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It started out as a joke. As a silly way to call out different forms of privilege. But quickly evolved into a new structured way to confront the social divides of sexism, racism and privilege that already exist in each of us. 


“I wanted to be having these conversations. I just didn't know how.”

— Lillian medville, FOUNDER

Watch the Your Privilege Is Showing TED talk

If we can't talk about the way the world around us enforces and reinforces systems of oppression, we can't even begin to understand our part in them.

Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! is an intensive, interactive workshop that creates a safe framework for participants to have open and personal conversations about privilege and oppression. Led by a trained facilitator, YPIS LIVE! challenges its participants to let their thinking evolve about the ways in which they have participated and still participate in systems of oppression. This game based approach empowers players to show vulnerability and grace when engaging with large and complex societal issues, and helps players navigate the inevitable shame that arises when we consider our own culpability in systems of oppression.

While there is a way to win the game, even in winning, Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! makes it clear that one does not win at social justice. The best that one can do is continue to engage, while forgiving themselves and others for their mistakes. Participants can be open to the idea that they may be wrong and that their perspectives are not the only perspectives that need to be considered. They can recognize that the way to dismantle systemic oppression starts with recognizing how it exists in each of us.

Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! takes present day examples of sexism, racism, heterosexism, misogyny, ableism, as well as other forms of privilege, and asks participants to identify what kinds of bias are in operation and how to interrupt that behavior. The simulation also has mechanisms built in to discuss other participant’s choices, and disagreements.  


The Mission

The fundamental philosophy of Your Privilege Is Showing is that systems of oppression (sexism, racism, privilege, ableism, classism, among others) are both personal and universal. We have all, no matter who we are, internalized and participated in these systems, and are hurt by them in some way. And still, we don’t talk about them. These games (Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! and YPIS AT HOME!) provide the holding container for direct, and personal conversations to happen. Different perspectives can be shared in a Brave Space environment; vulnerability and honesty can be rewarded.

By creating a structured approach of empathetic discourse to talk about racism, sexism, and privilege, the game draws upon the value of real-life experiences in order to enhance social justice literacy. Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! provides players with a social structure they don't normally have, so they can talk about issues they don't normally talk about while being challenged to understand what they may be missing. The participants get the chance to practice and navigate discussing their personal experience with privilege, racism, white supremacy, white privilege, sexism, homophobia, classism, ableism and misogyny. 

The conversation is the point.




Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! has been to Harvard Graduate School of EdGeffen Academy at UCLA, Berklee College of Music, MIT Media Lab, SXSWedu (2017 and 2018), Brooklyn Public Library, a well known search engine company in Mountain View, CA, and The Humanist Hub at Harvard, and seen significant change happen for the majority of participants. Participants leave with a increased sense of community, awareness and new skills to better recognize and name different kinds of oppression. Many of them express relief after the program because, finally, they got to have the conversations they have been wanting to have but didn't know how to begin.

Your Privilege is Showing is a unique opportunity to examine your understanding of privilege in a bounded, safe space that promotes interactive learning. When I played the game, I found myself much more aware of the limitations of my thinking, as well as of some of the ways that I might be unintentionally creating and/or perpetuating tensions and imbalances in my daily life. It is refreshing and challenging to have the conversations that Your Privilege is Showing requires you to have. And when the game is over, the real work is just beginning. Thanks to Lillian Medville for developing and facilitating this process and for making me think.
— Rhoda Bernard, Ed.D. Managing Director Berklee Institute for Arts Education and Special Needs
I learned that people can have conversations about controversial issues about which people may disagree and not get angry or heated.
I learned a new perspective on how to process my privilege.
I hold my participation in this pilot program as one of the most formative experiences I have had at Berklee. It’s not a training or an information session, it is an immersive and challenging exercise in examining how privilege, racism, and sexism manifest around us and in us.
Speaking at TEDxBeaconStreet 2017 photo credit:  Dave Rezendes

Speaking at TEDxBeaconStreet 2017 photo credit: Dave Rezendes

Bring Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! To Your Organization

There is a need for more opportunities where participants can go into a room and deal with their internalized racism, sexism and privilege in a facilitated and encouraging way. If you want to have honest and personal conversations about privilege and are tired of trainings that talk at you instead of engaging with you. Bring Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! to your school or organization.

Your Privilege Is Showing LIVE! helps to meet federal guidelines around gender related violence prevention, and bias related violence prevention. YPIS offers a facilitated space for students to dissect what they know, how they know it, and why it matters. 

"We must remove our mask to call attention to white advantage. That may help us understand one another a bit better. It may bridge divides, disrupt assumptions and stereotypes that block empathy and get in the way of serious efforts to achieve our country. As it stands, we don’t really talk frankly about race. And too many people are too damn scared to say so." 

-Eddie S. Glaude, Jr. In DEMOCRACY IN BLACK